In his second talk on semi-monasticism as a practice and essential part of Sangharakshita's vision of the Dharma life, Subhuti discusses the need to understand the Buddha's own nature in order to grasp the significance of semi-monastic institutions. He does this by opening up seven themes that capture the essence of the path in terms of how we live and work.
The Buddha's freedom from craving
Subhuti begins by evoking the Buddha as free from all craving, attachment and longing, dwelling in a state of blissful detachment and harmony.
The Brahma realms and polarity
If such states are to be accessible to us, we need to practise them. Subhuti explores the Buddhist belief in realms of higher consciousness (Brahma realms or brahmaviharas) where one transcends polarities like male/female identity.
Paths to overcoming sexual polarity
In terms of practice itself, two paths are described:
- Deep meditation to dwell in the brahma state beyond polarity
- Making sexual relationships more subtle and "deva-like"/divine.
The complexity of sex and relationships
It's complicated! Here Subhuti discusses the complexity of human sexual and romantic drives, egos, projections and attachments that need transforming.
Transforming relationships
How do we then conduct healthy relationships? Subhuti recommends having an independent life, not being overly attached, and seeing our partner as an individual.
Institutions supporting the path of Brahmacarya
Triratna has long offered various supports to this model of practice: single-sex communities, team-based 'Right Livelihood' businesses and retreats can all provide an environment to experience freedom from sexual polarities.
Exploring This Teaching
Subhuti invites us to explore this teaching further for ourselves through intensive retreat and connecting with Sangharakshita's writings on the third precept, which deals with ethical sexual conduct and the active practice of contentment. He concludes his talk by acknowledging the sensitivity of this topic for many people, and looking ahead to engaging with the other aspects!
Talk given at the London Buddhist Centre, May 2024.
