When we begin practicing Buddhism, it may not be immediately clear how one develops connection in the sangha (sangha = spiritual community). And yet, participation in community is a central emphasis in Buddhist teaching. Since the very beginning, becoming a Buddhist has been framed as “going for refuge to the Buddha, the Dharma and the Sangha,” or more broadly, to the possibility of Enlightenment, the Path to get there, and the community of those making the effort to walk the path.
In these times, this vision of spiritual life and community as “going for refuge” can be appealing on many levels. The irritation and anxiety of living through challenging times — when the three root poisons of greed, hatred and the delusion of separateness seem to be running rampant throughout the world — are feelings we all experience, regardless of our views on particular issues or public figures.
What are the characteristics that make a spiritual community a refuge from the stress and conflict of mundane life? How can growing our roots in the sangha make a difference for us and in the world?
This winter at PBC, we will explore this question through the lens of a teaching on the “skillful means” of growing community through generosity, loving speech, beneficial activity and exemplification (“walking our talk”). These are also important qualities of spiritual friendship. Following our usual meeting format of meditation, brief talks and ample time for reflection and small-group conversation, we will consider together how cultivating these four skillful ways of acting can contribute to making the sangha a true refuge, where people feel connected, inspired and supported in applying Buddhist teachings and perspective in their own life circumstances.
Every Sunday, 10-11:45am. These mornings will include meditation, a short talk and discussion. Everyone is welcome! We will be meeting in-person at Gateway Taiji, 875 Islington St, Portsmouth, with a Zoom option. Offered by donation, $5-$15 suggested. If you’d like to attend by Zoom, we’ll send the Zoom link upon registration, or simply sign up for our weekly email which includes the link. Please bring your own water bottle or thermos; we have meditation cushions and chairs at the studio.